The marital duty, defined as the implicit or explicit obligation for spouses to engage in sexual relations, is a notion rooted in certain European cultures and traditions.
Although it is increasingly questioned, particularly in light of human rights and consent, this idea persists in some social and legal contexts. In my opinion, this notion must be reassessed and rejected, as it infringes on individual autonomy and reinforces outdated gender stereotypes.
A practice rooted in tradition
Historically, marital duty has been imposed as a cultural and religious norm in countries where marriage is primarily viewed as an institution for procreation and social stability. In some conservative communities in Eastern and Southern Europe, such as in Poland, Hungary or Romania, marital duty remains valued, influenced by religious doctrines. However, it is crucial to evolve this tradition so that it is not imposed by social pressures but rather freely chosen by each individual.
Questioning through human rights
With the evolution of human rights, consent has become an essential norm, even within marriage. However, significant legislative gaps remain, and marital rape is only explicitly criminalized in certain countries, such as France, Sweden or Germany. For true equality, legislative harmonization at the European level is necessary, as every person deserves their rights to be protected within marriage.
Cultural and social impact
Nordic countries, such as Sweden and Denmark, are at the forefront of rejecting marital duty. These societies, where gender equality is strongly promoted, value individual autonomy. In contrast, in countries where religious traditions remain central, such as Ireland or certain regions of Spain, social or family pressures may still normalize the idea that marriage involves sexual obligations.
A necessary evolution
The recognition of consent as a fundamental right within the European Union is gradually challenging marital duty. Awareness campaigns and legislative reforms are essential to ensure that all forms of marital relationships fully respect the principles of equality and freedom. In my view, the European Union must take ambitious legislative action to ensure true equality in marital relationships.
The future of marriage in the EU rests on balancing tradition with individual rights, thereby prioritizing the dignity and autonomy of each person.